Keep a diary of thoughts and experiences
It is valuable to keep a diary of thoughts and experiences through this
whole process. As time goes by, you realise that you can look back to where you've come
from and see that the infertility experience is a big journey. Your outlook and
understanding changes dramatically along the way.
For myself, after going through many different phases, I have now chosen to see this
journey as an opportunity to learn. My pain doesn't go away, but it can at least be
transformed into something much more positive.
My chance to learn has been greatly enhanced by linking up (via this news group) with
women going through similar experiences. This was something I came to at a relatively late
stage, and I have found inspiration by reading the words with which others articulate
their experiences and responses. I see a lot of courage, a lot of humour, a lot of wisdom
-- and I know that I, too, can grow.
